I personally have never been a child of divorce or separation. My parents were never together as I grew up and that was normal to me. I do however have a nephew who is two going through a separation and a brutal custody battle between his mom and dad. Since the start of this battle I have been paying close attention to his attitudes, his behaviors, and his actions since things have started. Although he is only two and does not know what is really going on, I can tell that he has a sense of some kind of tension between his parents.
With that said I decided to make this blog on children of divorce and how it affects them as well as both the mom and dad. It has always been said that a child who goes through a divorce they will suffer from depression, failing grades and acting out. This is not ALL true now today. Research has shown that if both parents separate their divorce from the well being of their child that the child will most likely still feel loved and do well in life as oppose to those parents who are putting their divorce first and the well being of their child second. This is a website all on the psychological and Emotional aspects of divorce of children and the families. It has some recent and good statistics on many different aspects. It also breaks down the emotional stages of divorce the child is most likely to go through as well as the parents.
I found this website to be very beneficial and it brought new knowledge to me that I did not know or understand before. I hope this blog brings about good discussion and other people's points of view.
http://www.mediate.com/articles/Psych.cfm
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