Hank's video (responding)
Here are two Youtube videos of two brothers. One proposed the question, "what is your ultimate concern" the other replied. Just a heads up if you watch the video...they sort of talk about a lot of other things leading up to the excitement of "ultimate concerns", but all in all they are pretty decent videos.
What I took from the videos:
Just think for a minute: What would you die or kill for? Is there really something in your life that is that important? At what point in your life does something become that important? John has a child and at this point in his life his new baby is his ultimate concern...making sure that his needs are met. (Well that sounds familiar doesn't it; babies have needs too, they just can't satisfy them by themselves!!)
A response from the brother, Hank, proposes some interesting questions in response to the initial questions.
What are you concerned with at all, don't limit it to just the ultimate concern.
What I think is neat is how he explains how there are boundaries (visually I imagined a circle) of things you would die for, things you would fight for, things you care at all about, and finally things you just don't care about.
This then brings up that maybe something like maybe your own child is something you "would die for", but then the stranger-mom at Wal Mart has a child that is in the area of "things you don't care about". They are both babies but there is something different about your baby that makes it so much more important to you than the stranger's.
And for each person this will be different, so what is your ultimate concern? Or, what do you care about, or don't care about?
When these are defined in our own life we may start to realize our motivations and maybe even goals. We know from class that we all have physiological needs. Those are obviously of some concern to everyone, and they will be satisfied in much the same way. Then there are psychological needs and social needs and whatever our concerns in this world are will affect those needs.
Take the concern you thought of from above and apply that to a psychological or social need and how that would have an impact on our behavior in order to satisfy that need.
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