I got a puppy last summer, and it has been the most fun, loving, and rewarding experience I have ever had! My mom actually read this book (100 Simple Secrets Why Dogs Make Us Happy: The Science Behind What Dog Lovers Already Know) and recommended I looked at it. As I was glancing through the pages, it was really funny how much sense the book actually made. Having a dog gives us a sense of belonging, love, companionship, and even achievement (when training and raising a dog). Dogs also provide a constant motivator to get off the couch and play or go for a walk (for me at least). I know that I also feel obligated to her to make sure that she is healthy and happy, which also fulfils my affiliation need. Although this is generally intended towards humans, I think that someone can definitely benefit from having a dog. I have also learned in past classes that many therapists recommend getting a pet to their patients of depression or anxiety disorders. Pets provide a sense of stability, and also can provide and endless amount of love and friendship.
Having a dog can fulfill many of our psychological needs. When training a dog, it presents a challenge to be overcome. Our desire to do well in training our dog can fulfill the need for achievement (Reeve, 175). Succeeding in training your dog can be the most rewarding experience, creating a large amount of positive reinforcement and increasing the likelihood you will continue to train the dog. Setting goals in training can also increase motivation to continue training (Reeve, 184). Having things in mind such as "I'll have my dog potty trained by the fall" can increase your motivation to work with your dog. When your dog starts to understand the training techniques, it reinforces your behavior and increases the sense of achievement.
Another area were having a dog can fulfill psychological needs is affiliation and intimacy (Reeve, 192). Establishing a good relationship with your dog can be very rewarding. Dogs can provide constant, unconditional love when they have a strong bond with their owner. Although affiliation is rooted within the fear of rejection, affiliation with your dog can start to calm those anxieties and create a more relationship oriented life style. Dogs are also less likely to reject their owners, so someone with a high need for affiliation would likely have a good relationship with a dog.
The need for power may also be accomplished through owning a dog. The leadership (Reeve, 196) that it takes to own a dog is crucial in training and maintaining a healthy pet. Teaching the dog things that they can and cannot do is something that can create a very power-related relationship between the owner and the dog. Dogs see everything as a power-related situation (this is why many times dogs can have problems with aggression if they feel they have power over the house or over other people, in the dog world it is referred to as "dominance") It is the responsibility of the owner to make sure that the power does not shift from the owner to the dog, or serious aggression and misbehavior problems can occur. With the power safely in the owner's hands, the relationship between dog and owner can be a very positive one.
The book also discusses how people with pets tend to live longer, happier lives than those who choose to live pet-free. Here is a description of the book, which touches on many of the things that we have discussed in class (such as exercise to reduce stress, as well as communication).
From Harper Collins.com:
"Why do people who have dogs live happier, longer, and more fulfilling lives? Sociologists and veterinarians have spent years investigating the positive effects that dogs have on people's health and happiness yet their findings are inaccessible to ordinary people, hidden in obscure journals to be shared with other experts.
Now the international bestselling author of the 100 Simple Secrets series has collected the most current and significant data from more than a thousand of the best scientific studies on the profound relationship between humans and our canine companions. These findings have been boiled down to the one hundred essential ways dogs positively impact our lives. Each fact is accompanied by a inspiring true story. If you love your dog, and science tells us that you do, this book will inspire and entertain.
· Communicate Better: It sounds odd to say a creature that communicates with barking and body language can have such a profound effect on human communication. But by providing a common point of reference and concern, dogs help us to feel a connection to other humans. That connection makes us feel more comfortable communicating with each other. When meeting a new person, the presence of a dog reduces the time before people feel comfortable while talking with each other by 45 percent.
· Live Longer: There is perhaps no better gift that dogs offer us humans than this simple fact. People who care for a dog live longer, healthier lives than those who do not. On average, people who cared for dogs during their lives lived 3 years longer than people who never had a dog.
· No Monkey Business: Primates are genetically more similar to humans than any other creature. But try to tell a chimpanzee something and you will be hard pressed to get your message across. Dogs are uniquely attuned to the messages we send. Dogs study humans and have evolved to build social skills that help them to function around us. Dogs are 52 percent more likely to follow human cues such as pointing toward a source of food than are primates.
· Around the Block: Good habits are often misunderstood as difficult or unpleasant chores. But there is tremendous value in the simple act of taking a walk. Walking not only burns calories, it also decreases stress. Having a dog means regularly talking walks - it's something you do for your dog but in truth your dog is doing for you. Dog owners walk 79 percent farther in an average week than non-dog owners."
Are there other ways that dogs can help fulfill our needs? Is it selfish to think this way? What are some other motivators that people may have to own a dog, or any pet?
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