Why don't we complain?
http://www.smartercarter.com/Essays/Buckley%20-%20Why%20Dont%20We%20Complain.html
I found this article very
interesting. It discussed the
reasons why humans do not complain.
One reason could be fear of negative repercussions from peers or the person
in which you are complaining to.
Many people have a predisposition to think that complaining is worse
than being uncomfortable and will therefore accept being uncomfortable. I think that if you are nice about the
problem no one will be able to say you were out of line, they might even be
happy that someone had the nerve to say something.
Another reason why many people may
not complain in an unpleasant situation is because of the by stander
effect. If they are uncomfortable
or unhappy, at what point will they take it upon themselves to remedy the
situation? It would be at the
point when they realized that no one else was going to do it. Human kind is predisposed to believe
that other people will take the lead in situations and therefore, much of the
time nothing gets done.
A third alternative could be
because of sheer shyness. This is
the hardest to combat, because it is a trait of the person that is very hard to
manipulate. However, I shy person
may be annoyed by a situation but never get to the point of thinking about
doing something to change it, therefore avoiding the discomfort of compliance.
The author of this article states that at the point when humans no longer complain, we will become automatons, incapable of feeling. I wonder what others think of this conclusion. Does compliance lead to lifeless humans? Is it right to always complain when faced with imperfect situations?
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